Hello

Hello, my name is Jay~Jay
The reason I'm starting this blog is for....two reasons:

1. To help me vent my feelings when things at home get to be too much
2. Hopefully to help others dealing with the same thing I am

Basically, it's no fun having divorced parents. Let's be honest, it sucks. It's hard especially, for those whose parents have joint custody and are bounced from house to house during the week. It's tough, but we have to cope. The hardest thing, though, is when you're parents can't communicate with each other and they expect you to pass important information on to the other parent. And of course, if you forget, you get yelled at. How is that fair? It's not.

Step by step, we learn. And everyday we deal. We adjust. Life is hard. If this will make us tougher....well I wish we didn't have to learn how to be tough by going through this. But what can we do? We have a few options:
1. Mope about how bad our life is and how much we wish our parents would get along.
2. Not let our parents put us in the middle of the things THEY should be handling.
3. Spending time with our friends, not letting our situation bother us.
4. Learn from this experience.
(I'd say 2,3,and 4 are our best options)

Life is like a ladder, that we keep building higher. It's up to us to make it strong at the bottom so as we continue to climb, we won't fall off. If we can get past this, keeping our ladder strong, as we continue working our way through life, we'll stay climbing.

Feeling like my life is like a ping pong match, I'm out,
Jay~Jay